Misunderstanding of Shame
Listen in to Del Adey-Jones 3 principles practitioner talk about her experience with shame and how we make up stories, a great conversation with some real nuggets of wisdom.
- Why story feels so solid
- How we define ourselves
- How we make up rules about life
- What we make it mean about ourselves
- Collecting evidence to support stories
- Children cannot rationalise experience
- How we take responsibility for experiences
- Why we never give up the craving for a parents love
- Trying to medicate experience throughout life
- How abandonment creates shame
- Why we seek out difficult people to love
- Why we choose difficult relationships
- How we get a bigger sense of validation
- How we confuse longing with love
- Living in the experience of your story
- Looking for love in unavailable places
- Overwhelming emotional experiences
- How we internalise experience
- Thought carried through time doesn't define usv
- Looking in the past for answers
- The value of normalising experience
- The value of solid ground to hold onto
- Hearing the truth beyond the words
- Switching off your intellectual filter
- Nothing changes but everything changes
- Seeing psychological innocence
- Seeing past socially acceptable labels
- When labels fade away, whats on offer
- Living a life of possibility
- Seeing your unlimited potential
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